# Marriage in Stardew Valley: Everything You Need to Know
Stardew Valley isn’t just about farming—it’s also about building relationships! With 12 marriage candidates to choose from, each with unique personalities, gifts, and quirks, picking the best spouse in Stardew Valley can be tricky. Whether you’re looking for the best wife in Stardew Valley, the most helpful spouse, or just the cutest romance, we’ll help you decide who you should marry in Stardew Valley.
# How to Get Married in Stardew Valley
Before you can tie the knot, you’ll need to win over your chosen spouse. Here’s how:
# 1. Increase Friendship
- Talk to them every day.
- Give them loved gifts (twice per week + once on their birthday for bonus points).
- Complete their heart events to learn more about them.
# 2. Give Them a Bouquet
- Once you reach 8 hearts, Pierre’s General Store will sell Bouquets for 200g.
- Giving a bouquet makes them your boyfriend/girlfriend, unlocking two more hearts.
# 3. Propose with a Mermaid Pendant
- After reaching 10 hearts, buy a Mermaid Pendant from the Old Mariner at the beach (5,000g).
- The wedding happens three days later, and your spouse moves in!
# Who Is the Best Person to Marry in Stardew Valley?
There are six bachelors and six bachelorettes, each offering something different. Here’s a breakdown of the best spouses in Stardew Valley based on personality, gifts, and farm contributions.
# Best Spouse for Beginners: Leah
Loves: Salad, Goat Cheese, Wine
Why Choose Leah?
- Easy to romance (loves foraged items).
- Sweet and independent artist.
- Gifts mushrooms, truffles, and salads.
# Most Interesting Spouse: Shane
Loves: Beer, Pizza, Hot Peppers
Why Choose Shane?
- Has a deep, emotional story arc.
- Struggles with depression and improves over time.
- Gifts pepper poppers and large eggs.
# Best Spouse for Adventure: Abigail
Loves: Amethyst, Chocolate Cake, Pumpkin
Why Choose Abigail?
- Loves mining and adventure (will offer to join you in the caves).
- Gifts Bombs, Cherry Bombs, and food.
- Has a cool gamer aesthetic.
# Most Responsible Spouse: Harvey
Loves: Coffee, Wine, Truffle Oil
Why Choose Harvey?
- Kind, mature, and stable.
- Gifts complete breakfasts and coffee.
- Good for a relaxed, cozy marriage.
# Best Spouse for Farm Help: Penny
Loves: Diamond, Melon, Poppy
Why Choose Penny?
- Helps with farm chores like watering crops and feeding animals.
- Loves reading and teaching kids.
- Simple, sweet, and wholesome.
# Most Romantic Spouse: Elliott
Loves: Lobster, Pomegranate, Duck Feather
Why Choose Elliott?
- A poetic and dramatic romance story.
- Gifts seafood dishes and coffee.
- Writes a novel about you after marriage.
# Coolest Spouse: Sebastian
Loves: Void Egg, Frozen Tear, Obsidian
Why Choose Sebastian?
- A brooding bad boy who opens up over time.
- Rides a motorcycle.
- Gifts coffee and void eggs.
# Most Stylish Spouse: Emily
Loves: Amethyst, Cloth, Wool
Why Choose Emily?
- A spiritual, crystal-loving free spirit.
- Gifts cloth and wool (great for tailoring).
- Has a pet parrot that joins your farm.
# Most Helpful Spouse: Maru
Loves: Gold Bars, Strawberries, Battery Packs
Why Choose Maru?
- Super smart and always inventing cool stuff.
- Gifts battery packs and high-value food.
- Helps on the farm more than most spouses.
# Best Spouse for Strength: Alex
Loves: Complete Breakfast, Salmon Dinner
Why Choose Alex?
- Athletic and ambitious (dreams of being a pro athlete).
- A bit cocky at first but has a heartwarming backstory.
- Gifts healthy food and fitness-related items.
# Biggest Glow-Up: Haley
Loves: Sunflower, Coconut, Fruit Salad
Why Choose Haley?
- Starts off snobby but has the most character growth.
- Loves photography and sets up a darkroom.
- Gifts food and stylish furniture.
# Most Wholesome Spouse: Krobus (Non-marriage option but still amazing!)
Why Choose Krobus?
- Lives with you as a roommate (no marriage).
- Offers void items and never gets jealous.
- Cute and mysterious shadow monster!
# What Happens After Marriage?
# Spouse Perks
- Spouses help around the farm by watering crops, feeding animals, and repairing fences.
- They give gifts like food, resources, and even rare items.
- You unlock a 14-heart friendship level with your spouse.
# Children in Stardew Valley
- After upgrading your farmhouse, your spouse may ask about having kids.
- You can have two children (biological or adopted).
- If you regret it… you can turn them into doves at the Witch’s Hut.
# Divorce & Memory Erase
- Divorce costs 50,000g (Mayor Lewis’ house).
- Your ex will refuse to speak to you.
- Pay 30,000g at the Witch’s Hut to erase their memory and start fresh.
# Who Is the Best Stardew Valley Spouse?
• Best spouse for gifts & farm help: Penny, Maru, or Leah
• Most romantic and engaging story: Elliott, Shane, or Sebastian
• Best adventure buddy: Abigail or Sebastian
• Biggest personality transformation: Haley or Shane
• Most unique choice: Krobus (roommate option)
Ultimately, the best person to marry in Stardew Valley depends on your gameplay style and preferences. Whether you want a partner who helps on the farm, gives great gifts, or has a deep, emotional story, there’s a perfect spouse for you.
Who did you marry in Stardew Valley? Let us know in the comments!
# Looking for more Stardew Valley knowledge?
- Stardew Valley Fishing Guide
- Stardew Valley Gift Guide
- Stardew Valley Coop Benefits - All Things You Can Do in Multiplayer
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